A Happy First |
Two medium size modern houses with a walk way make up the small compound where First lives with his adopted grandparents, their youngest single daughter, and the family of their eldest daughter. Tanwut Tongchaekun (First) is 7 years old, half Aka and half Thai, and just successfully passed to second grade at Mae Yoi School. He has gained some weight, which has helped him grow a little taller. In his classroom he is quick to answer his teacher's questions. On a recent home visit, he showed off his smarts with his computer skills. He shared that he enjoys spending some of his weekend time with his two older stepbrothers learning about the computer. He also enjoys drawing, playing games, and watching tv with his extended family. He is a changed boy, full of laughter now. Before this, First was a sad and sometimes angry boy. His life was full of confusion, which caused him to have outbursts at home or at school. His confusion came from his mother's and grandmother's disappearance and then return. The grandparents took him in. This is the Thai way, taking care of family; even when he/she are not related. There is no Foster Care in Thailand and orphanages are limited. Since then, they both have returned to live in the neighborhood but refuse to have anything to do with First. |
After several attempts to connect with them, which resulted in both his mother and grandmother telling him he was not wanted and to leave them alone, all relationships have been severed. It was decided this was the best for everyone. With GCPP help, the family is better. Knowing there will be baht (Thai money) to care for First has been a relief for them. Adam Dedman, Director of Southeast Asian Studies at Payap University, has been First’s sponsor for the past several years. As Adam lives and works right here in Chiang Mai, they are able to hang out together and build a trusting and caring relationship. |